Friday, 4 October 2013

Beauty & Skin 101

I have been very stressed lately trying to juggle my jobless life and also the anxiety of starting a new job. It is very stressful anticipating something that is only going to come in another month's time. Stress is not doing me a favour at all. I start to have mini breakout (hopefully will not turn into big ones) and it is not helping that the time of the month is approaching (supposed to come last week but I guess my aunty missed her bus and she is still not here yet). The fact that I am missing my period is stressing me out because I need to time myself properly so that I will not have my period during my trip to Korea. I hate this late menstrual thingy. So yea, I am now ugly, greasy and cranky.

Due to my ugliness, I have to come up with ways to make me less ugly. I managed to find a few things and I have started on few of these regime and I must say, they work quite well. Not to say I am super beautified now but I think I look less haggard.

1. How to make my eyebrow pencil/powder stay on?
Whether or not you have thin eyebrows or superbly thick and bushy eyebrows, we cannot run away from filling them in to make them look better. However, there are some make up products out there nowadays that (unfortunately) are not water/oil proof. Having said that, you will end up with no eyebrows or only one eyebrow at the end of the day. So, I have been using Nude by Nature Mineral Primer, a product of Australia every time after my daily skin routine before putting on make up. I would say it helps my eyebrow powder stays on longer than usual. However, it doesn't help in preventing oil productivity. You will still need to do some blotting and powdering after 8 hours.



2. How to prevent creases/fine lines on your under eye make up?
It is usual to get creases or fine lines under eye after a long day at work or a hard night of partying. This happens usually when the concealer cakes up and the weather is humid. It is especially obvious if you were laughing and squinting a lot. Not a pretty sight if your date moves in closer for a kiss only to find that you look older than you are supposed to. Yikes! My solution is to again apply primer after skin routine before applying make up. You can do it in one pump per eye for the under eye, eyelids and eyebrows as well. This will save up on the amount of product you use per eye. The primer enables the under eye concealer to spread out smoothly and evenly with just gentle pats. I am personally happy with the result but am not sure if this would work with other brand of primer. I am currently using Nude by Nature. Will definitely try Two Faced Absolutely Flawless Concealer when my current tube runs out.

3. How to smoothen and fill up wrinkles on the face?
I have been switching brands in between but I have yet to find something that will smoothen my face effectively.



Love the scent. First application was smooth and easy. Spreads out evenly on my skin. It really smoothen lines and even out my skin tone given that it has this pink shade to it. It gives this matte finish that feels smooth to the touch. However, on my 4th time using it, the mousse dries up a little and the application was not as smooth and even anymore. The mousse clumps up as it touches the skin after a few gentle rubs. I did not finish this tub and I've only used it a few times. I think it costed me bout RM60+




Love love love the scent. It stays on throughout the day and you would smell so good. The cream is a little on the thick side but it is not pore-clogging or heavy. It does not make your skin feels oily which is a plus point for me because I have a combination of oily and dry skin. It moisturizes but I am not too sure on the wrinkle smoothing effect as I have only been using it for 5 days. I think I have noticed some of the lines being filled up but it might only be psychological effect on me. I will wait for a full 14 days to give another review. I do feel that I look younger though LOL! This costed me RM99.90.

4. How to minimize breakouts?
I have read that breakouts are very often caused by clogged pores or over-drying skin. Some people may over wash their face to remove the greasiness or dirt. Because of this, the sebum will automatically produce oil as a protective layer to moisturize the skin. Over washing of face will lead to over productivity of oil which in turn will cause acne or breakouts. For women who wears make up everyday, the over productivity of oil will clog pores as the skin has no room to breathe (the oil is suppressed by layer of make up and cause pore-clogging). Therefore, it is very important to double cleanse and scrub. I have learnt that it doesn't help at all to only scrub every few days a week because living in this humidity, my face is clogged almost everyday. I have been using the following items to cleanse my face and some of these are on a rotation basis.



I like that it is oil-based - suitable for light and heavy make up. It can also be used on the eyes and it doesn't sting. I have tried the Biore one which stings even though it is specifically for the eyes. This is formulated with Olive Oil and is super gentle on the eyes and skin. Though might sound gentle but it can even remove mascara and eyeliner in a sweep. It is alcohol and fragrant free which does not irritate skin. I prefer this over the water-based one because this can be used on all face, eyes and lips.



This is a daily scrub and facial foam in one. The price is very reasonable for 100g tube. It is drying due its foam nature but not over-drying. It contains microbeads for the scrubbing purpose which is not too harsh on the skin and good enough to unclog pores and remove dirt and impurities off the skin. I have been using this for close to 10 years since they first launch this product.



This cleanser does not dries up skin because it does not completely strip off oil from the skin. This is especially good if you are double cleansing or triple cleansing because it keeps skin hydrated without removing the natural oil off one's skin. It is very mild and fragrant free. A big tube of 150ml can last you for 2 months depending on the frequency of usage.

5. How to pamper your skin without overdoing it?
I have been on the lookout for non oily serum and I have finally found a few of them! They are not greasy and not pore-clogging. So happy! I have been switching in between these 2 brands - drugstore and over the counter.



Got this as a sample from one of the local drugstore when I purchased one of the Olay products and I got hooked. But I couldn't find it anywhere after because they only carry it at a bigger drugstore in Malaysia. I need to get my hands on this soon! It is so lightweight, the scent is good and it gives your skin this smooth finish that is so easy for the application of foundation. It works better than any primer in my opinion. This is to be applied after toner before moisturizer. It doesn't promote breakout because it is fast absorbing and doesn't leave you with greasiness even on humid days.



As I couldn't find the Regenerating Serum anywhere, I have to make do with the Revitalising Serum. In my opinion, this is slightly slow in absorbency in comparison to the Regenerating Serum and it leaves your skin with a wetter finish. I cannot differentiate whether it is greasy or wet finish but it definitely doesn't grease out my skin - not immediately though. It also has the similar fruity scent which I love because I like smelling good throughout the day. Sometimes, make up makes you smell funky when it's humid. Would still prefer the Regenerating Serum.



Living in a tropical country with sun shining down your skin all year long can create a lot of unnecessary problems in one's life - dark spots, acne/breakouts, wrinkles/fine lines, uneven skin tone due to partial tanning. I am currently in my second bottle of this baby and I am finishing. I do not know if I will continue getting this because I feel that I have been putting a lot of things on my face. Sometimes it is good to give it a break. But this spot corrector is mainly for acne scarring or other dark spots. Not so much as a daily serum I would say but it is said to also help even out skin tone. I am not too sure. It is slightly on the expensive side and I don't see that it is effective. I might consider stop using this.


Next, is to think of what to do with my hairloss :(

Thursday, 3 October 2013

Style Deal

Am currently serving my notice period and I feel so jobless at work (pun not intended). Putting my time to good use, I have been window shopping online and it's not fun at all being jobless and broke at the same time. Whatever that I find pretty, I cannot own them because I have exploded my shopping budget this year saving up for my trip to Korea this coming November. Yes, I cannot wait :)

Having that said, I found cheaper options for the branded good :))))) Now you can prance around with affordable stuff acting they are pricey. Yeah babeh! Lol. Moving on......



















Such a deal for most of the items. Would you go for brand or price?

Tuesday, 24 September 2013

Sleeping with the eyes open

Never get sick of shopping. People always ask me where do I buy my clothes? How do I store them? How come I don't wear the same thing twice?

To be honest, I think I could survive a year without doing laundry. Even if I have to change my clothes everyday without washing any I will still have something clean to wear. That is how severe my addiction to shopping is. I wouldn't say that I must shop but I couldn't stand not buying something that I found I like. May not be something that I need but it's always something that I want at that time. Most of the items are impulsive buys which I end up leaving them in my closet untouched. These items still have tags on - I think the resell value is there because the tag is still on hehe.

But being a working adult, I simply do not have the time to shop. The industry I'm in is so demanding and competitive I always end up pulling my hair at work if it's not my clients' hair. Otherwise I'll sleep with my eyes open like this...

Now, where do I get my clothes from then? Online of course! It's so convenient nowadays with online boutiques just a click away. However, due to quality issues I'd prefer the overseas online boutiques especially the ones with free international shipping. I have been visiting ASOS and TOBI. ASOS is UK based with international presence where TOBI is based in the US. They both offer free international shipping and so far I am very happy with the quality of clothes and services. However, due to the free international standard shipping, the items only arrive after a month or so. What's worse is that it is not advisable to order above RM500 per parcel to avoid custom checks and additional tax payment upon receiving the goods.

The problem with online shopping is that you keep on adding items to your shopping cart and before you even know it, you have like 46475474543525239 items in it. It's such a chore to go through one by one trying to remove something out of it to suit your budget. I mean it is almost impossible to convince yourself that you do not need that another pair of skinny jeans or another piece of crop top - I mean afterall, they are in your shopping cart for a reason! Trust me, this is harder than convincing your boyfriend/husband to watch Gossip Girls with you on a Sunday night. What's worse is that they are updating with new arrivals every few days! Being broke sucks. I am still waiting for my parcel from ASOS to arrive as we speak.

Monday, 16 September 2013

Chinese wedding dinners

Imagine the toughest time planning for the wedding of your life. All the time and effort spent in making the day memorable only to be ruined by "karaoke sessions". All the aunties and uncles should know your place. This is someone's wedding not your wedding anniversary. If you think your singing skill is comparable to those of American Idols, Asian Wave or The Voice then by all means, please show case that during your birthday, Chinese New Year or even funerals. Not during people's wedding!!! I would be so fucking pissed off if people were to do this at my wedding - thank god my friends and relatives were sensible enough.

So bored and annoyed at the wedding that I had to do what has to be done...taking selfies from different angles.

Sunday, 8 September 2013

Age is just a number

I have another 30mins before my birthday ends. I'm officially a year wiser and hopefully not physically older. Been trying my very best not to let myself remember my birthday but people around me just have their ways to remind me of it. Despite feeling indifferent about my age, I'm actually very glad that people around me care *feeling blessed*

My birthday celebration started with my manager getting a cheesecake for me at work. This year will mark my last year with the company and will also be the last birthday celebrated in our good ol'pantry. I'll miss my fellow colleagues. You guys are the reason I'm going to work everyday :)

Cheese tart from Shakespeare Patisserie at Subang Jaya

The actual celebration went down to a surprise brunch at Ben's KLCC after our weekly jogging session with the bunch. It was a simple and unexpected yet enjoyable birthday brunch. I truly enjoy such simple and intimate surprise over the crazy drunken birthday parties where you wake up the next day not remembering half of it. I guess I've matured. But it's also odd to celebrate your birthday the way I had it. Jogging session for a birthday? Lol. Nevertheless, we had fun.

Took a drive to our new house after the jog to check on the defects. Nothing has been done. It is actually very annoying that Uda property is taking such darn long time to fix what are needed to be fixed. We are not satisfied with the finishing of the house. It's as though they have rushed through the entire development to meet deadlines without taking into account that people actually paid for these houses. Never trust this developer ever again. The bungalows and semi-d's are worse we were told.

Maybe it's due to the frustration and recent stress, I slept through the entire afternoon. Woke up just in time for dinner and I was starving!!! We went for Thai food and it's yummy! I hope my throat is ok though with all the spiciness.

Ended with cake and presents from the family.
Chocolate cake from Levain Patisserie

Lip and cheek set from Benefit. Love the Bene Tint!

Baby has been treating me like a princess the whole day and I feel so blessed to have him in my life. I couldn't ask for anything more than this. I believe that it is only with him that I can say that my life is perfect. I love you...

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

Unfortunate

It's been a long day for me. Woke up late for work because I did not charge my phone before I went to bed last night. As a result, my alarm did not ring - battery went flat. It's a miracle that I woke up automatically at 7.45am as if I know it's time to go to work. I'm amazed :)

Then realized that my car petrol went flat as well. Everyone went crazy at the petrol station the night before because our beloved government had decided to increase the gas price to RM2.10 perlitre from 12am onwards. I took the liberty not to join the crowd last night knowing the petrol indicator was pointing at Empty. A smart and not so smart move. The news reported that there were people who queued for as long as 45minutes just to fill petrol. And for the "smart" people like myself, we ended up paying extra 20cents perlitre today because of our stubbornness. Hooray for not wasting time but boo to my purse :(

Yes I was very late. Sue me. I was almost reaching office and was queueing at the toll booth when this Volvo decided to kiss the back of my car. Very smart of you old man. The first instance is to check if it's legit before getting off the car. Since there were so many people around I guess it was save to get down. The uncle went "why did you stop abruptly?!!!!" whoa uncle! I was stopping there for god knows how long. Probably longer than your pathetic life. Anyways he then admitted it was his fault as he was looking for small change. We negotiated and came to an agreeable amount as compensation for the scratches on my new car. Now my baby needs a facelift :(


Yes it's that Volvo :(

As if it's not enough, I arrived at work to a bunch of difficult and problematic cases to solve. Calls kept pouring in and I barely had time to breathe. Oh dear God please save my life. Went to lunch and got stucked in the restaurant for 3 hours due to heavy downpour. My work at the office left unattended for 3 hours. Fuck my life.

September is supposed to be a good month for moi. Why is it not so far?! I am not buying the whatever saying about making lemonade when life gives you lemon. If I were given lemon I'm gonna grab them and throw them at the people who make my life miserable. Anyhow, September has just begun. I'm gonna make sure to enjoy every bit of it.


note to self: don't forget to smile because shit happens.

oh found this on my car windscreen today after work. Stalker much?

Monday, 2 September 2013

Older men

They are just so sexy isn't it? No, don't get me wrong. Not all older men are attractive. I'm talking about Robert Downey Jr type of older men. There's something charismatic about them that tickles my fancy. And it's so effortless. Argghhhh..I blame it all on Iron Man.

On another note, I wouldn't say the same for the Chinese actors. The older they are, the more sleazy they look. Their tendency to want to look cool and the fact that they have to try so hard drives me nuts. Maybe that's why I've stopped watching Triumph in the Skies 2. There's nothing cool about a bunch of wannabes trying to speak with an accent when they can barely utter a word with proper pronunciation. Can these people stop? Ok, I have strayed but it all boils down to one thing - I'm old :(

What's not to like about him?

Saturday, 31 August 2013

When you don't even need to try so hard...

The little things that is seemingly disgusting to people at large and yet mean otherwise to me.

The only person who is capable of making me cry and laugh at the same time (aside from the Korean dramas I have been watching).

The only one who would love me unconditionally despite all the things I've put you through.

The only one who wouldn't mind being nagged, yelled, shouted at and takes all that with a smile.

The one who I depend my life on.

The one who thinks I look beautiful without make up.

The one who loves me for who I am.

The one who truly cares for me.

The only one who I will spend the rest of my life with.

My soul mate.

Thursday, 3 January 2013

Blogging on the go

I've never done this before but it seems fun. I can now update my blog on my android phone weeeeeee! I wonder how long can I keep up with this blogging thingy considering that I stopped blogging for a year plus.

2012 was an eventful year for me. Many things have changed and I'm very glad with what I've achieved and become. Given that I have the chance to do things differently I'd never change a thing.

Here's to a whole new world full of surprises awaits :)